My husband and I, both being athletes, have always considered ourselves to be very healthy. We exercised, ate our proteins, fruits, veggies, grains etc. Unfortunately, over the past year, my thoughts have started to change about that. Each individual of my growing family seems to suffer different ailments due to the things we eat.
I am currently a mother of 3 beautiful children below the age of 6. I work full time during the day and my husband works part time in the evenings. We have a busy and stressful lifestyle that doesn't leave a lot of time for exercise and eating right.
My Story:
I was diagnosed with
ulcerative colitis in the fall of 2011. This was absolutely shocking to me. As I mentioned, I've always been healthy and active, and no one in my family suffers from anything like this. It's a very serious disease affecting the colon (lower intestine). I did a bunch of research on it and saw that a lot of people controlled their colitis with diet. The diets named were Specific Carbohydrate, GAPS, and Paleo. After reviewing those, I was not ready to commit. I would have to eliminate soooo many of the foods that I regularly eat and I just didn't have the mental motivation to research food and start over. So, I started taking my prescribed medication of
Lialda, and my symptoms went away. I was in, what they called, remission.
If anyone knows me, I am not one to rely on medication for my every little pain/ailment. I dislike going to the doctor, and I really dislike taking medication. I prefer holistic methods of healing. The fact that Lialda was a newer drug and had only been tested over a 16 week period of drug trials REALLY concerned me. I know that drugs can defeat symptoms of one ailment but truly harm the body in other ways, causing additional issues. But, I felt defeated. My diagnosis was too serious for an alternative. I either take the drug, or I die slowly until they determine they have to remove my colon.
At the beginning of 2013, I began to experience a "flare" from my ulcerative colitis, which means I was experiencing uncomfortable symptoms even though I was still taking my medication. When this happens, GI doctors typically prescribe a steroid (Prednisone) to reduce inflammation and induce remission again. Steroids are horrible on the body and should be avoided when pregnant or nursing. I had a 2 month old at the time. With that, I started researching methods to induce remission naturally, through diet. I came back to the SCD, GAPS and PALEO diets.
In addition, I started looking into Lialda again and found possible long term side effects that concerned me. It can cause issues with the kidney, liver, heart and pancreas. Of course, all concern me, but the fact that it could cause kidney problems was serious. My dad currently has Type II diabetes, developed in his late 40's. Knowing the possibility that I could already have weak kidneys, I don't want to exacerbate the issue.
All that being said, I have decided to commit to a healthier diet and lifestyle. My life depends on it.
My 5 year old son's story:
I ate organic, exercised and used all organic products when carrying my son. He was born naturally, without any complications at nearly 9 lbs. He was the epitome of health, developing normally, never having an ear infection or even being sick until he was about 18 months old. This is when we started noticing a language delay and some sensory issues. By 3 years old, he started speech therapy and early Pre-K to get him caught up. We also started him on a gluten free diet, having learned that a gluten allergy can have a major impact on developmental abilities. At the time, he was addicted to PBJ sandwiches. Unfortunately, this only resulted in a gluten reduced diet. Behavioral issues persisted and many got worse as he aged. At 4 years old, in the fall of 2012, my son was officially diagnosed with
autism.
Currently, there is no known cause or cure for autism. Along with various therapies (Occupational, Speech, Physical, ABA etc) some parents are finding symptom relief in specialized diets and supplements.
Through research, I have learned that the gut has a major impact on our brain and behavior. Take for example how badly alcohol can impair your vision, your memory, your speech, your balance etc. Without a healthy gut, which is extremely complex, it would seem that one can not have healthy brain function.
We started biomedical treatment just before the age of 5 because my son was absolutely tanking. With special needs preschool and private therapy, we were getting nowhere. I felt like it was a waste of everyone's time. My son couldn't focus, was sensitive to all kinds of sensory stimuli, we couldn't take him anywhere, he eloped, he fought and screamed, was becoming destructive (destroying classroom and our home), hitting other children, started self injuring when overstimulated and had reduced his diet to hamburger buns, cheese and goldfish crackers. He was also sick a lot.
I had had enough. This was not the sweet, calm, healthy baby with a big appetite and extremely varied diet that I knew.
Cold turkey, we started the gluten free diet. This was before even seeing a biomed doctor. Things got worse before they got better because my son was NOT happy about that. It was very difficult for his teachers at school. But, literally, at day 14 of the GF diet, my son was "there." I will never forget the day that he got off the bus and actually looked at me. That week, he said "bye" to his bus driver, and said "thank you" to his bus aide.
We ran several tests found multiple allergies, the biggest being yeast, almonds, walnuts and egg yolk. Going GF has been the big wow for us. Dairy doesn't seem to affect behavior that I can tell, but all 3 of my children get eczema from it...so I know it's not good for them. Other dietary changes based on allergies and sensitivities have also helped because I know that my son's body is in a constant state of inflammation, which was GREATLY reducing his immune system. This spoke to why he was sick all the time.
In addition to dietary changes, we started GcMAF shots, which is something the body makes naturally to boost the immune system. My son has been ill only a couple of times since February and each cold only lasted 1-3 days.
My son is talking in sentences (mix of scripted and spontaneous), answering yes/no questions, able to play catch, and playing with his sister. He isn't running off, he is able to focus in all of his therapies...so we're getting more out of them. His therapists could not believe the turn around.
For this reason, I am committed to a healthier diet and lifestyle for my son. His chances for an independent future absolutely rely upon it.
In addition:
-My husband has either a gluten intolerance or a gluten allergy. Upon eating anything gluten or drinking a beer, he becomes very tired and spends the next several hours trying to clear his throat of phlegm; a mucous build up reacting to the allergen.
-My 2 year old daughter develops eczema on her fanny and has diarrhea after consuming a decent amount of dairy. She was addicted to yogurt. We have moved to alternative forms of dairy, but I believe carageenan may be causing diarrhea as well.
-My youngest develops horrible eczema all over his body when he has any dairy from a cow. He also reacts to eggs. I have decided not to introduce him to any grains until the age of 2, as there is evidence that babies do not have the appropriate enzymes in their digestive system to digest grains.
My family needs to be healed from the inside-out. This is our journey.